What is a wake?

A wake is understood as a gathering for support before the funeral, where family, friends, and community members come together to remember the deceased and offer condolences to the bereaved. This tradition allows people to share memories and express their grief in a supportive environment.

Often held in a home or a funeral home, the wake serves as an informal setting that allows for personal interactions among attendees, differing from the more formal structure of a funeral service itself. The focus is on providing emotional support and connection during a difficult time, creating a sense of community among mourners.

In contrasting contexts, a funeral service held at a church typically involves a structured ceremony with specific rituals and religious components. A private family ceremony would be more intimate and exclusive to family members, which does not encompass the broader gathering aspect of a wake. Lastly, a reading of the will pertains to legal matters surrounding the estate of the deceased and is separate from the grieving and support functions that a wake provides.